Hey guys, if anyone's still reading. haha.
I'm moving to a www.cuddlefishh.blogspot.com
It's a joint blog, by me and the boyfie.
To all those that has linked me. Please re-link me okay. <3
<3 love ya'all.
Love,
Venessa
Monday, September 21, 2009
One year of bliss
21.09.09
Dear baby,
Firstly,You've been nothing less than wonderful<3
Second of all, you were not suposed to have read this until the night of our Anniversary!
Yes i found out :p
It's been a year, how time flies. It has been an amazing wonderful journey with you baby. All the roadtrips, sightseeing, people,every time we part, heated-discussions, parent meeting sessions, plans-gone-wrong, and oh how can i forget that perfect kiss at Sepang that totally won me over and sealed the deal :p Good or bad, i loved and treasured every single second and moment spent with you. LDR hasn't been the easiest obstacle to overcome.but it's been a wonderful journey with you and daddy in heaven ( Oh yes, we couldn't do without him ). But if you need to know, i still feel all glittery and excited everytime we talk or text.
Funny how i still remember how things were when we first got to know each other a year ago,and it feels like it all just happened yesterday. How excited i felt ,everytime we started a conversation on MSN. You were a stranger, but somehow we talked as it we've known each other for years, we could talk for hours and laugh about everything and anything under the sun. The feeling of anticipation, when i wake up each morning, knowing i'll be able to talk to you again. The squealing about you to my girlfriends.Then came the Post that you dedicated to me,The WebCamming sessions,& then the daily exchanges of texts. And the first phonecall you made, It was after a tiff with my parents , you said you got worried and called me, even though you were driving. I soon found myself falling deeper and deeper each day for someone i barely knew. And i was falling fast.
Then exactly on the 19thsept one year ago, we finally met up with each other face to face. Remember, how i felt so shy, i pretended to look at some MRT sign..then i felt a tap on my back,only to face you when i turned around. I swore, i melted on the spot.I did wish that i could have given you a big hug there and then. Our date the very next day was to some sports
and gaming convention which we went with Nath & Josh. Remember how,we sneaked away to have our own personal time together. :p That very night, when you dropped me off at the MRT station, You pulled me in for a very big and warm hug. I was screaming inside , i was overjoyed.
I swore you seemed quite reluctant to let go :p well me too. I shan't go into details, but on this day exactly one year ago. It wasn't anything big, no questions asked. In the theatre at vivocity, You held my hand and smiled to me. And i knew exactly then and there, that im never letting go of that hand. Not literally of course, but you get my drift ;)
This post would probably end up as a 20 page essay if i continued typing everything i wanted to tell you. But, baby. Thankyou for being my pillar of strength and support. And im growing and learning everyday with you. Through good times. The bad times and the distance, it only makes us even stronger. Im not good with words baby, and i know i have said things like this to you a million times in those letters and notes. I wish you knew how much i love you, i wish i could express it all in forms of words so that everything would make sense to you. No amount of words seem enough to cover how much i love you and how blessed i feel to have god place you into my life.
We are still going to have obstacles come our way, we are still going to have to sort out many issues and have heated discussions. Times like these we may say things that we don't mean, but it does not change the fact that i still love you very much :) We'll just have to leave everything into the hands of daddy in heaven,and we know he'll sort it out for us, like he always do. He have his reasons for bringing people into our life. You're the best gift he's given, and I couldn't ask for anything more.
I love you Yap Chee Seng, more than words can express & more than i've ever in my wildest dream ,dreamt that i was even capable of loving someone this much. Happy 1st Year Anniversary baby & many more to come.
P/s.
Thankyou to everyone around me & baby. ( ie. SS GANG ,links of all the wonderful people at my sidebar ) for all your advices and cares & concerns.Am so glad to have known u guys as well!! It's been a year knowing you guys alr!! Cheers to our blossoming friendship as well. (:
Special thanks to Tai-Gor Chris Thoo & Jun Jun one of my really good friends. For all the advices and help you've given us during some of our hard times, even from the start. *huggs*
Always& Forever yours,
Abby <3
Warning
Please not that if you continue scrolling down and reading, It might cause a sudden rush in one's sugar level. If you are at high risk of Diabetes, You are adviced not to continue reading. And to click on the Big red ' X ' sign at the top right hand corner of your screen for your own safety. The owner of this blog, claims no responsibility of any Illness / sickness of any readers that continues reading despite being already warned.Dear baby,
Firstly,You've been nothing less than wonderful<3
Second of all, you were not suposed to have read this until the night of our Anniversary!
Yes i found out :p
It's been a year, how time flies. It has been an amazing wonderful journey with you baby. All the roadtrips, sightseeing, people,every time we part, heated-discussions, parent meeting sessions, plans-gone-wrong, and oh how can i forget that perfect kiss at Sepang that totally won me over and sealed the deal :p Good or bad, i loved and treasured every single second and moment spent with you. LDR hasn't been the easiest obstacle to overcome.but it's been a wonderful journey with you and daddy in heaven ( Oh yes, we couldn't do without him ). But if you need to know, i still feel all glittery and excited everytime we talk or text.
Funny how i still remember how things were when we first got to know each other a year ago,and it feels like it all just happened yesterday. How excited i felt ,everytime we started a conversation on MSN. You were a stranger, but somehow we talked as it we've known each other for years, we could talk for hours and laugh about everything and anything under the sun. The feeling of anticipation, when i wake up each morning, knowing i'll be able to talk to you again. The squealing about you to my girlfriends.Then came the Post that you dedicated to me,The WebCamming sessions,& then the daily exchanges of texts. And the first phonecall you made, It was after a tiff with my parents , you said you got worried and called me, even though you were driving. I soon found myself falling deeper and deeper each day for someone i barely knew. And i was falling fast.
Then exactly on the 19thsept one year ago, we finally met up with each other face to face. Remember, how i felt so shy, i pretended to look at some MRT sign..then i felt a tap on my back,only to face you when i turned around. I swore, i melted on the spot.I did wish that i could have given you a big hug there and then. Our date the very next day was to some sports
and gaming convention which we went with Nath & Josh. Remember how,we sneaked away to have our own personal time together. :p That very night, when you dropped me off at the MRT station, You pulled me in for a very big and warm hug. I was screaming inside , i was overjoyed.
I swore you seemed quite reluctant to let go :p well me too. I shan't go into details, but on this day exactly one year ago. It wasn't anything big, no questions asked. In the theatre at vivocity, You held my hand and smiled to me. And i knew exactly then and there, that im never letting go of that hand. Not literally of course, but you get my drift ;)
This post would probably end up as a 20 page essay if i continued typing everything i wanted to tell you. But, baby. Thankyou for being my pillar of strength and support. And im growing and learning everyday with you. Through good times. The bad times and the distance, it only makes us even stronger. Im not good with words baby, and i know i have said things like this to you a million times in those letters and notes. I wish you knew how much i love you, i wish i could express it all in forms of words so that everything would make sense to you. No amount of words seem enough to cover how much i love you and how blessed i feel to have god place you into my life.
We are still going to have obstacles come our way, we are still going to have to sort out many issues and have heated discussions. Times like these we may say things that we don't mean, but it does not change the fact that i still love you very much :) We'll just have to leave everything into the hands of daddy in heaven,and we know he'll sort it out for us, like he always do. He have his reasons for bringing people into our life. You're the best gift he's given, and I couldn't ask for anything more.
I love you Yap Chee Seng, more than words can express & more than i've ever in my wildest dream ,dreamt that i was even capable of loving someone this much. Happy 1st Year Anniversary baby & many more to come.
Congratulations to shar & ryan on your 1 year anni as well. <3
Shar, stil can't believe that we both got together with someone
on the same day, same month. Seriously, what are the odds?haha
Stay strong okay,the upcoming month isn't gonna be easy, but we'll
definitely pull through.O lvls will be over even before you know it..
Double date picnic soon love!
Shar, stil can't believe that we both got together with someone
on the same day, same month. Seriously, what are the odds?haha
Stay strong okay,the upcoming month isn't gonna be easy, but we'll
definitely pull through.O lvls will be over even before you know it..
Double date picnic soon love!
P/s.
Thankyou to everyone around me & baby. ( ie. SS GANG ,links of all the wonderful people at my sidebar ) for all your advices and cares & concerns.Am so glad to have known u guys as well!! It's been a year knowing you guys alr!! Cheers to our blossoming friendship as well. (:
Special thanks to Tai-Gor Chris Thoo & Jun Jun one of my really good friends. For all the advices and help you've given us during some of our hard times, even from the start. *huggs*
Always& Forever yours,
Abby <3
#11
Hey baby! (:
So you wanna quit blogging har? Not so soon can?
Here's another reason why you shouldn't la xD
so you'll get flowers like these from me (:
unknowingly of course.
I love you so much baby (:
Cheez & Abby
August
PS: I read your post already..and.. I loved it. :)
Venessa Seraphina Abigail Ho Li-Wen, I love you.
Happy 1st Anniversary baby!
So you wanna quit blogging har? Not so soon can?
Here's another reason why you shouldn't la xD
so you'll get flowers like these from me (:
unknowingly of course.
I love you so much baby (:
Cheez & Abby
August
PS: I read your post already..and.. I loved it. :)
Venessa Seraphina Abigail Ho Li-Wen, I love you.
Happy 1st Anniversary baby!
Thursday, June 18, 2009
Last note,
Hiii. Omggggawd. I haven't been blogging in here for ages. No, Im not being lazy and it's not an excuese either. Because School and O levels has really been getting to me, I haven't been blogging long either.
But anyways, today.I've come back to tell you darlings that i will *poof* from this blog, until my O levels are over which will be on the 11th Of November, Yes. I know it's a really long break indeed but I cannot afford to have any distractions, these couple of months and I d hope that you my readers will be able to understand. And i will definitely miss blogging, I've been missing it alot actually, and getting to know all the wonderfull people that reads my blog. And have linked me. But when i'm back, I'll be back with a bang!! A whole new Layout and many more. Just you wait! So in the meantime, You guys can feel free to check out my old posts while i was titled the 'love guru' lol or check out the following of my Baby, Close blogger friends and SS Gang's blog : Cheez, Jun Jun, Cathy, Jess, Josh, Chris Thoo. There are many more links at my side bar, and i am sure ,looking at the number of awesome blogs you get to choose from, you'll be occupied im sure. Everyone of them are interesting and amazing people. So you should definitely check them out.
Oh,It's not overrrrr. Before im leave and start to burry my head in books and come back as a nerd. I'm gonna do a post about my realllllllly short trip down to KL last last week. :p I was an impromtu trip, i actually went there for a Funeral , my great great grand Aunt passed away.
But still, i never fail to take some time off to meet my kawan and makan kakis whenever im up, since im hardly in KayElle! Baby had been amazing. During the 4 days spent there, he woke up as early as 6 ish to drive my family around. awwww. *sayang* xD I only had one day to meet everyone. So here's our journey.
Baby came to pick me up, from the hotel in the morning, and we headed to Pudu to have this reallly awesome Beef Noodles, with his father and brother. No pictures la. Abit weird right. In front of his father, but if you want to know where you can ask baby x) Then we picked his friend up from setapak and drove alllllllll the way to Sunway to have lunch with Jun Jun! We went to Pasta Zanmai
Shared with baby.
Salmon
Sirloin Steak
Then after lunch at Sunway with Jun, we sent baby's friend J.Shyan back to Setapak
and rushed to One Utama , to meet up with the SS gang!! Josh was also in KL, as he
had to go for the Stand Out party the night before!
Baby
Evvie baby
Cathy Darling
Teck Weng
Heartless Josh
Jess Darling
And Chris Tai Gor. I dont want to post his individual picture la. Later he scold me, say not nice
T.T i post on facebook he scold me d, ask me take down! Tsk!
Chris & Jess darling.
I think this picture, they took before me & cheez came !
More pictures!
1/4 of my crazy & awesome SS Gang Peeps! :)
Stillll have weiii, after meeing my ss gang darlings, baby drove us from One Utama to Sepang. The place where the magic started! That place holds alot of memories for baby & i lor. Except. this time, it was a sunday. So there was no Privacy and there were alot of peole -.- But, the clouds weren't hiding the sun, and for the first time, I saw the beautiful sunset, with my baby.
love him so much!
Sand artttt. x)
oops sorry, forgot to rotate x.x
What's baby starring at ...haha my emo baby!
Isn't it beautiful?
Sun set already. !
See, told you it's beautiful right.
Heehee. Sigh, I miss KL and everyone already. So many things and places in one day!! Hahah
Seriously, i think baby's parent would get a shock when they see the car's mileage! xp
Anywaysssss. Im going to go off now. Until im back again, i'll be missing you all! !
*poof*
But anyways, today.I've come back to tell you darlings that i will *poof* from this blog, until my O levels are over which will be on the 11th Of November, Yes. I know it's a really long break indeed but I cannot afford to have any distractions, these couple of months and I d hope that you my readers will be able to understand. And i will definitely miss blogging, I've been missing it alot actually, and getting to know all the wonderfull people that reads my blog. And have linked me. But when i'm back, I'll be back with a bang!! A whole new Layout and many more. Just you wait! So in the meantime, You guys can feel free to check out my old posts while i was titled the 'love guru' lol or check out the following of my Baby, Close blogger friends and SS Gang's blog : Cheez, Jun Jun, Cathy, Jess, Josh, Chris Thoo. There are many more links at my side bar, and i am sure ,looking at the number of awesome blogs you get to choose from, you'll be occupied im sure. Everyone of them are interesting and amazing people. So you should definitely check them out.
Oh,It's not overrrrr. Before im leave and start to burry my head in books and come back as a nerd. I'm gonna do a post about my realllllllly short trip down to KL last last week. :p I was an impromtu trip, i actually went there for a Funeral , my great great grand Aunt passed away.
But still, i never fail to take some time off to meet my kawan and makan kakis whenever im up, since im hardly in KayElle! Baby had been amazing. During the 4 days spent there, he woke up as early as 6 ish to drive my family around. awwww. *sayang* xD I only had one day to meet everyone. So here's our journey.
Baby came to pick me up, from the hotel in the morning, and we headed to Pudu to have this reallly awesome Beef Noodles, with his father and brother. No pictures la. Abit weird right. In front of his father, but if you want to know where you can ask baby x) Then we picked his friend up from setapak and drove alllllllll the way to Sunway to have lunch with Jun Jun! We went to Pasta Zanmai
My birthday present for Jun Jun, as her
Birthday was the following week!
Birthday was the following week!
Shared with baby.Salmon
Sirloin Steak
Then after lunch at Sunway with Jun, we sent baby's friend J.Shyan back to Setapakand rushed to One Utama , to meet up with the SS gang!! Josh was also in KL, as he
had to go for the Stand Out party the night before!
Baby
Evvie baby
Cathy Darling
Teck Weng
Heartless Josh
Jess DarlingAnd Chris Tai Gor. I dont want to post his individual picture la. Later he scold me, say not nice
T.T i post on facebook he scold me d, ask me take down! Tsk!
Chris & Jess darling.
I think this picture, they took before me & cheez came !More pictures!
1/4 of my crazy & awesome SS Gang Peeps! :)Stillll have weiii, after meeing my ss gang darlings, baby drove us from One Utama to Sepang. The place where the magic started! That place holds alot of memories for baby & i lor. Except. this time, it was a sunday. So there was no Privacy and there were alot of peole -.- But, the clouds weren't hiding the sun, and for the first time, I saw the beautiful sunset, with my baby.
love him so much!
Sand artttt. x)oops sorry, forgot to rotate x.x
What's baby starring at ...haha my emo baby!
Isn't it beautiful?
Sun set already. !See, told you it's beautiful right.
Heehee. Sigh, I miss KL and everyone already. So many things and places in one day!! Hahah
Seriously, i think baby's parent would get a shock when they see the car's mileage! xp
Anywaysssss. Im going to go off now. Until im back again, i'll be missing you all! !
*poof*
Monday, April 13, 2009
Happy 17th to meeeee.
Sooo, im back to blog. Hellllo. I know my blog is collecting dust, and filled with cobwebs already! haha. Anyways, last weekend was all planned out, i was supposed to be in KL celebrating my birthday with the SS Gang & Baby on Saturday at Chris Thoo's houseee! But due to school and O levels, i wasn't and wont be allowed out of the country until O levels are done! (sigh) Soo, i didnt get to celebrate my burffday with them. However, i did have an amazing time. Because baby came down during the weekends to celebrate it with me! :D And also , there was dinner with some of my close friends and baby at Dallas And then, Dinner with baby & Family at Hilltop Japanese Restaurant in Jurong! Oh and even to the science centre with sis & baby! =x . Baby & I also headed over to the Marina Barrage with Peektures!!! Okaay!Enough Talking. More piccies coming your way!!! *winks
Science Centreee!
Deborah,Raihan,Eva
We all drank like 5 bottle of water ! LOL
Deborah & i
Surprise piece of birthday cakey LOL
Parted from friends, baby & i headed over to Clarke Quay
The Clinic for some shots/Drinks in Drips~ xD
Syringe
This drink is called
Sex on a drip.
Next up, is peektures from dinner with the Family & baby at
Hilltop Restaurant on Jurong Hill.
They have Tepanyaki, Japanese and Indon food!! Yum!
Anyways, if you wana try it.
Here's their contact and where they are located at!
And now, peektures taken from Marina Barrage!
YES ! I took this shot k!! haha !
And sending baby off on the last day. T___T
Oh, thanks to Quincy.
We now have a pair of bunny couple! x)
Oh, visit her blogshop here for cute little ah-dorable handmade toys!
Made.At.Home
Oh and before i forgeeet.
Tah-dah~
xD
p.s.
Oh and to you nosey parkers in my class. Yes, you know who you are!!!!!!!! I dont want to name you out. But why the heck do you even bother about my life? Im not even close to you guys. In fact i do not even want to talk to you people. Must you go and ask Sha wether i have a boyf and if he's malaysian?You want to know so much isit? i'll tell you ! Yes my baby is malaysian. He's all the way in malaysia while im in singapore.We're dating and engaged. So what? isit any of your concern?! Why should you even care when we dont even talk (-.-) Dont even try judging me when you dont even know me. U & ur bunch of friends. Only in our class for a year and start assuming u can talk about us all already? please. We have no time for such things? It's O lvels if you forgotten. Aparently i dont think u care, cos u rather spend ur time gossiping about people who dont even bother wasting their time talking to you (-.-) So what else do you want to know? Oh and sha even heard you saying that is ldr impossible. why not. mind your words when talking ah. I think my relationship with baby should not even be of your concern. But since you're so 'concerned' baby & i are perfectly fine. My parents have met him and we're doing awesome & very much in love still. &still going strong. Jealous much? Anyways, Dont be such a shady person and go around people's back and start gossiping. Annoying much. Shan't waste my time on you alr i have better things to do.
Science Centreee!
Deborah,Raihan,Eva
We all drank like 5 bottle of water ! LOL
Deborah & i
Surprise piece of birthday cakey LOLParted from friends, baby & i headed over to Clarke Quay
The Clinic for some shots/Drinks in Drips~ xD
Syringe
This drink is calledSex on a drip.
Next up, is peektures from dinner with the Family & baby at
Hilltop Restaurant on Jurong Hill.
They have Tepanyaki, Japanese and Indon food!! Yum!
Anyways, if you wana try it.Here's their contact and where they are located at!
| Near Jurong Birb Park 2 Jurong Hill Road 628925 | |
Opening Hours: Mon-Sun: 1130am-1030pm | |
| Tel: 6265 1538 |
And now, peektures taken from Marina Barrage!
YES ! I took this shot k!! haha !
And sending baby off on the last day. T___T
Oh, thanks to Quincy.
We now have a pair of bunny couple! x)
Oh, visit her blogshop here for cute little ah-dorable handmade toys!
Made.At.Home
Oh and before i forgeeet.
Tah-dah~
xDp.s.
Oh and to you nosey parkers in my class. Yes, you know who you are!!!!!!!! I dont want to name you out. But why the heck do you even bother about my life? Im not even close to you guys. In fact i do not even want to talk to you people. Must you go and ask Sha wether i have a boyf and if he's malaysian?You want to know so much isit? i'll tell you ! Yes my baby is malaysian. He's all the way in malaysia while im in singapore.We're dating and engaged. So what? isit any of your concern?! Why should you even care when we dont even talk (-.-) Dont even try judging me when you dont even know me. U & ur bunch of friends. Only in our class for a year and start assuming u can talk about us all already? please. We have no time for such things? It's O lvels if you forgotten. Aparently i dont think u care, cos u rather spend ur time gossiping about people who dont even bother wasting their time talking to you (-.-) So what else do you want to know? Oh and sha even heard you saying that is ldr impossible. why not. mind your words when talking ah. I think my relationship with baby should not even be of your concern. But since you're so 'concerned' baby & i are perfectly fine. My parents have met him and we're doing awesome & very much in love still. &still going strong. Jealous much? Anyways, Dont be such a shady person and go around people's back and start gossiping. Annoying much. Shan't waste my time on you alr i have better things to do.
Thursday, April 2, 2009
Dear readers,
sorry for having not blogged in a long time.
I've been very busy with school :(
But i will be back End of April!
Love ya all!!!
xoxo,
venessa
sorry for having not blogged in a long time.
I've been very busy with school :(
But i will be back End of April!
Love ya all!!!
xoxo,
venessa
Thursday, March 5, 2009
7 effective Habits!
okaaay. Stop telling me that my blog is dead, bcause i know that. xD I have been too busy with school to update T___T But that's such an excuese right! lol. Seriously, i never knew the O level year was this tough! Okay but anyways enough with the craps. I miss blogging so much, and miss chatting with the NNCB people! Gosh *Tears away. Nostalgia! Okay but school has been rather interesting with their moral value talks and what not, and i have decided to share this with you people because it dosen't only apply to us students but to everyone! You might have heard of this.
Habit One: Be Proactive
(Principles of Personal Choice)
You can either be proactive or reactive when it comes to how you respond to certain things. When you are reactive, you blame other people and circumstances for obstacles or problems. Being proactive means taking responsibility for every aspect of your life. Initiative and taking action will then follow. Note: This first habbit is the Key to unlocking the other habbits!
Habit Two: Begin with the End in Mind
(Principles of Personal Vision)
Begin with the End in Mind is about setting long-term goals. Decide where you want to finish and work towards your goal. Where you want to end up. Because life is a race. When you Begin with an end in mind. You are starting yourself off with a goal and the future that you want to end up with. Your future is in your own hands.
Habit Three: Put First Things First
(Priorities)
This habit describes a framework for prioritizing work that is aimed at short-term goals, at the expense of tasks that appear not to be urgent, but are in fact very important. People often do not set their priorities right. What may seem important to them might not be as important. And Vice versa. We need to learn how to prioritize our work and time management would play a key role in this.
Habit Four: Think Win-Win
(Principles of Mutual Benefit)
An attitude whereby mutually beneficial solutions are sought that satisfy the needs of oneself, or, in the case of a conflict, both parties involved. Think positive. And always look on the bright side of life! :D
Habit Five: Seek First to Understand, Then to be Understood
(Principles of Mutual Understanding)
Always keep in mind that giving out advice before having empathetically understood a person and their situation will likely result in rejection of that advice. Thoroughly reading out your own autobiography will decrease the chance of establishing a working communication.
Habit Six: Synergize
(Principles of Creative Cooperation)
A way of working in teams. Apply effective problem solving. Apply collaborative decision making. Value differences. Build on divergent strengths.It is put forth that when synergy is pursued as a habit, the result of the teamwork will exceed the sum of what each of the members could have achieved on their own. “The whole is greater than the sum of its parts.” Or like they say '' Many heads are better than one'' :)
Habit Seven: Sharpen the Saw
(Principles of Balanced Self-Renewal)
This focuses on balanced self-satisfaction by engaging in carefully selected recreational activities and the need to sharpen ones mind. Set high goals for yourself and constantly try to achieve better and go on to the next level!
I hope you dears found some enlightenment in these seven habits because i did! xD No one is perfect, but these are possible guidelines and vales that are there to guide us to whatever we want in life and our goals. If you found these Habits interesting you might want to also look out on the following books , Seven Habits of Highly Effective Families and The Seven Habits of Highly Effective Teens. (:
-wiki
The Seven Habits Of Highly Effective People!
(Yes, we were taught this in school, lol)
It's actually from a Self-Help book, written by this person called Stephen R.Covey and The book lists seven principles that, if established as habits, are supposed to help a person achieve true interdependent effectiveness. Very deep right!! Haha But let me elaborate, and trust me.Like i did, You will find that somehow these 7 habits are quite true. And it does help.(Yes, we were taught this in school, lol)
Habit One: Be Proactive
(Principles of Personal Choice)
You can either be proactive or reactive when it comes to how you respond to certain things. When you are reactive, you blame other people and circumstances for obstacles or problems. Being proactive means taking responsibility for every aspect of your life. Initiative and taking action will then follow. Note: This first habbit is the Key to unlocking the other habbits!
Habit Two: Begin with the End in Mind
(Principles of Personal Vision)
Begin with the End in Mind is about setting long-term goals. Decide where you want to finish and work towards your goal. Where you want to end up. Because life is a race. When you Begin with an end in mind. You are starting yourself off with a goal and the future that you want to end up with. Your future is in your own hands.
Habit Three: Put First Things First
(Priorities)
This habit describes a framework for prioritizing work that is aimed at short-term goals, at the expense of tasks that appear not to be urgent, but are in fact very important. People often do not set their priorities right. What may seem important to them might not be as important. And Vice versa. We need to learn how to prioritize our work and time management would play a key role in this.
Habit Four: Think Win-Win
(Principles of Mutual Benefit)
An attitude whereby mutually beneficial solutions are sought that satisfy the needs of oneself, or, in the case of a conflict, both parties involved. Think positive. And always look on the bright side of life! :D
Habit Five: Seek First to Understand, Then to be Understood
(Principles of Mutual Understanding)
Always keep in mind that giving out advice before having empathetically understood a person and their situation will likely result in rejection of that advice. Thoroughly reading out your own autobiography will decrease the chance of establishing a working communication.
Habit Six: Synergize
(Principles of Creative Cooperation)
A way of working in teams. Apply effective problem solving. Apply collaborative decision making. Value differences. Build on divergent strengths.It is put forth that when synergy is pursued as a habit, the result of the teamwork will exceed the sum of what each of the members could have achieved on their own. “The whole is greater than the sum of its parts.” Or like they say '' Many heads are better than one'' :)
Habit Seven: Sharpen the Saw
(Principles of Balanced Self-Renewal)
This focuses on balanced self-satisfaction by engaging in carefully selected recreational activities and the need to sharpen ones mind. Set high goals for yourself and constantly try to achieve better and go on to the next level!
I hope you dears found some enlightenment in these seven habits because i did! xD No one is perfect, but these are possible guidelines and vales that are there to guide us to whatever we want in life and our goals. If you found these Habits interesting you might want to also look out on the following books , Seven Habits of Highly Effective Families and The Seven Habits of Highly Effective Teens. (:
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